I wore my BITNP shirt for her last day! |
For the last year and a half, I’ve made it a personal mission to spread
the word about melanoma awareness. So
have many, many others. There is no
better support group for encouragement than those folks I’ve encountered
online. We have all read, applauded, and
commented on one another’s thoughts and helped to spread them to other readers.
Unfortunately, I don’t have as many folks in my life that offer
face-to-face encouragement. My family
is, of course very supportive as I spend many nights seeking new information
about melanoma or writing my latest thoughts.
But for the most part, other people are only somewhat aware that I have “that
thing about skin cancer” and little else.
Most of the people I encounter outside of family are at work. I enjoy the day-to-day interaction with
nearly all of my colleagues and some would be considered friends. However, recent changes have us all pretty
busy and somewhat out of touch with others’ lives. Frankly, one of my biggest flaws is to stay
isolated and not discovering the personal lives of my co-workers as I
should. It’s no wonder that most are
unaware of my campaign.
Then there’s Susan. I’m not even
sure how I first shared my mission with her, but she has taken a large interest
in this blog and my overall mission. She
would comment on my latest post the very next day at work. She would compliment my homemade
t-shirts. And she would constantly
remind me that I’m “making a difference.”
Best of all, she started seeing a dermatologist regularly because of
what I’ve shared.
There have been times that I’m just dead beat. Either work or family life had me frazzled
and I’d feel guilty for having not blogged or put forth the efforts to my
mission. But eventually, Susan would
remind me or encourage me. Frankly,
without her, BITNP might have faded away several months ago. But it didn’t, and I plan to stick with it
for many months and years to come.
Friday was the last day of work for Susan at my workplace. She has taken a job closer to her home and
her aging mother. She’s always been one
to keep life’s important priorities in mind.
Monday will be the first day in a year and a half where I won’t see
Susan sitting across from me and commenting on my latest blog. But while she’ll be missed, rest assured her
encouragement will continue. She reads
the blog and she follows on Facebook.
And she’s a constant opponent on Words with Friends (I promise you’ll
win one Susan…eventually …J
)
There are a few other equally supportive folks at work and elsewhere
which I’ll mention one day, but I wanted to send a special thanks to Susan as
she ventures onward. Best of luck along
your next path.
And Susan, wear your sunscreen!
Losing a supportive co-worker is always a bummer. Like you, I don't really bond with my co-workers because I'm so caught up in the work stuff. That's probably a downfall of mine, but hey, I get my work finished in a timely manner!
ReplyDeleteAlthough I understand feeling wiped out, please don't stop blogging. I would miss your posts.
See you in November!